Chaos to Confidence Mindset

Stepping Away from Generational Dysfunction and Into Your True Power

It feels like chaos is all around us—in our minds, relationships, and bodies. But here’s the truth: chaos isn’t the problem. It’s how we’ve been conditioned to think about it that makes everything harder. The stories we’ve been told, the beliefs we hold, and the patterns we repeat—whether we’re aware of them or not—are what keep us stuck. We weren’t meant for endless suffering—we were meant for peace, joy, freedom, and authenticity. If you’re tired of the same old cycles and ready to break free, this course is for you. In the Foundations lesson, you’ll uncover how your brain is conditioned to create patterns that keep you stuck. Through three powerful steps, you'll pinpoint where things go off track in your thoughts, feelings, and actions—and discover how to shift your mindset to break free from the cycle. You’ll learn to reframe limiting beliefs and take bold action that brings more joy, peace, and clarity into your life. By the end, you’ll have actionable tools to unlock your true potential, reclaim control, and step into a life of confidence, calm, and freedom.
Warrior Image Created with AI Magic This warrior image was created with the help of AI, guided by my vision and input. It represents the strength, resilience, and fierce empowerment I strive to embody and share with others. By combining technology with the energy of my true self, I hope it resonates with the powerful transformation we’re capable of when we step into our authentic power.

Transformation Steps

Nurture Your Personal Evolution at Your Own Pace, with the Option to Engage in Online Discussions & Community Support!

    1. Welcome to Step 1: Awaken Your Warrior Within

    2. Presentation - Awaken Your Warrior Spirit

    3. Workbook - Step 1

    1. Presentation - Break Free to Your Warrior Self

    2. Workbook - Step 2

    3. Handout - Cognitive Culprits - Unhelpful Thought Patterns

    1. Presentation - Rise as the Warrior You Are

    2. Workbook - Step 3

    3. ✨️FEAR: An Acronym for Facing Fear

    1. List of Supplementals with Links

    2. ✨️ "The Channel to the Primal Source"

    3. ✨️ "The Artist"

    4. ✨️ "The Core of Your Problem"

    5. ✨️ "Being at Home on Earth"

    6. 🎵 Soul Alignment Mantra Meditation ~ Eos Koch

    7. ✨️ "Flowers of the Earth"

Lifetime 24/7 Access to All Materials & Future Updates

  • $189.00
  • 19 lessons
  • 5.5 hours of video content

Meet Your Instructor

Kortnie with a K 🦋

Kortnie McIlquham

Your Mindset Metamorphosis Mentor

Kortnie with a K is a fierce advocate for self-empowerment, a budding wordsmith in the blogging world, a rising voice in transformational speaking, and the Founder & CEO of Doyenne Pride—a vibrant movement dedicated to helping women step boldly into their power, own their stories, and create lasting impact. Through her signature 3-step process—Awaken, Break Free, Rise—Kortnie helps women 30+ shed fear, rewrite the beliefs that keep them small, and fully embrace their most authentic, unapologetic selves. Her journey isn’t just theory—it’s lived experience. From facing homelessness, divorce, and self-doubt to becoming a homeowner, warrior, and thriving mother of three grown children, Kortnie has walked the fire and emerged stronger. Certified in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Reiki Levels 1 & 2, she fuses practical mindset shifts with energetic healing to help women break cycles, reclaim their voices, and step into their next level of confidence and freedom. At the heart of her mission is Doyenne Pride, a community built on the belief that “It takes a strong pride to raise strong cubs.” Through her work, she’s not just inspiring change—she’s igniting a revolution of resilient, self-led women who refuse to dim their light.